Signs Your Ex Is Pretending To Be Over You On Social Media

Sometimes relationships end. A breakup can be a definitive end to a relationship in some cases. In some cases, though, it is a comma that isn’t clear.

There could be an unresolved issue that leaves one or both parties hanging.

It does not necessarily mean that you want to get back together with your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend just because you are curious about what they are thinking.

There are times when you wish you could finally put the past relationship behind you. But there are times you still want to get back with your ex and you will be wondering, “Is my ex pretending to be over me?”

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Signs Your Ex Is Pretending To Be Over You On Social Media

How to know if my ex is pretending to be over me on social media? Please read on.

If they delete all the pictures of you two from social media except for one.

In spite of the fact that this kind of behavior may cause you to gasp in horror, it is usually a very positive sign.

A sign that your ex is truly over you is when he or she acts more rationally than emotionally.

This means that your ex made an effort to forget you but was unsuccessful.

It’s important to leave one.

Your ex probably won’t tell you this directly, but it’s possible that they’re acting this way because they’re afraid you might finally move on without them.

Based on his thinking, leaving that picture will help stop you from moving on as fast since you will not give up.

In any case, that’s probably what they think.

Yes, we are talking about seemingly insignificant things, but even this can balloon into a gig deal.

Your ex just doesn’t want you to go anywhere until they work out their feelings, and they can’t bring themselves to remove that last picture.

Usually, it’s a good sign.

This can be useful for encouragement, but I strongly advise against stalking them on social media, contacting them (a major no-no), or speaking to other people about them retaining that one photo.

They follow you around on all of your social media accounts

Truthfully, social media stalking can occur even after you’ve moved on from a previous relationship.

We can all be guilty of occasionally prying into someone else’s business out of pure curiosity, but the key is to only do so on very rare occasions.

How do you tell if your ex is pretending to be over you? They are intensely checking on you if they are watching your Pictures on Instagram or liking your Posts on Facebook on a regular basis.

And they’ll probably be doing it in secret; I’ve had exes set up fake accounts so they could spy on me.

What does it mean when your ex checks your social media?

It’s possible that your ex is spying on you to find out where you are and who you’re hanging out with. They might also be interested in hearing about your life since the breakup. Whatever the case may be, you should know that you owe your ex no explanations.

Is My Ex Trying To Get My Attention On Social Media?

They unfollow you before re-following you.

When you check your social media page, you see that one of your followers has disappeared. You do some digging and discover it was actually your ex. It makes you wonder, “Did he unfollow me to get my attention?”

Exes may choose to unfollow you after a breakup if they find it too painful to see you moving on with your life. Conversely, if they suddenly unfollow you and then start following you back, it’s an attention-seeking maneuver.

They engage with your photo content by “liking” or commenting on it.

Your ex is the first person to like or comment on any new photos you post. And why is that the case? They want you to remember them, so they use this tactic.

After all, whenever you come across a notification that contains their name, you pause for a moment and think about them. They can spend as much time as they like inside your head if they like every new photo you post.

They constantly bombard you with jokes and online comics.

Although you haven’t had any contact with your ex since the breakup, you’ve noticed that they keep sending you memes and other jokes they find online. It might not be as bad as it seems at first. Since you two are so familiar with each other that it stands to reason that you also enjoy the same jokes.

They may be trying to engage you in conversation by doing this. They’ll eventually change the subject back to your relationship if you respond to the memes they send.

They started updating all the time when they previously never had.

Perhaps your ex never really warmed up to the idea of social media. Your partner probably hasn’t posted anything to social media more than twice during your entire relationship. You two broke up, but now they can’t stop posting!

How come my ex-spouse is always updating her social media? It’s possible that they want you to keep an eye on their posts so that you’ll not forget about them and eventually come back.

They inadvertently “like” one of your older posts.

While you haven’t heard from your ex since the breakup, you receive a “like” on one of your posts.

It turns out they liked one of your older posts when you check the notification. It could indicate that they were looking at your profile and hit the like button by accident.

It’s possible that the notification will vanish after you refresh the page. Your ex probably felt a rush of panic, realized their mistake, and quickly unliked the post. Or, they did it intentionally to attract your attention and cause confusion.

You receive a message from them to “catch up.” 

Perhaps you and your ex decided to go your separate ways after the relationship ended. That way, you can both put this behind you and move on. Too bad they keep breaking their word. They constantly contact you through various means to say “hey” and catch up.

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They locate and add you on every platform.

Maybe you were just casual Facebook friends with your ex. But after a breakup, they search for you everywhere online and add you.

This provides them with numerous opportunities to monitor your whereabouts and actions. It’s also a tactic for getting you to pay attention by showing that they care about you and want to know more about you.

They are constantly checking out your updates.

Your ex hasn’t liked your posts or talked to you on social media since you broke up. However, you’ve noticed that their account is always one of the first to view your Snapchat or Instagram story whenever you post one.

Your ex might try to give the impression that they don’t care by not liking your posts, but they actually care about you too much to risk losing your interest. They read everything you write in an effort to keep you thinking about them.

They post things they know will get a response from you.

If you’ve ever been in a relationship, you know that your ex has a keen understanding of your preferences and the triggers that will cause you to react strongly. Maybe you both like the same band or type of music, so they begin sharing things about that.

They intentionally post things that they know will elicit a response from you just to get you talking to them again.

They keep texting you to ask you to end things.

If your ex keeps contacting you on social media asking for a final resolution, they probably have something else in mind. Perhaps they want to have a conversation about the breakup to finally put it to rest.

Most likely, they want to talk to you about the relationship in the hopes of convincing you to give it another try.

They all talk about how they’ve been hurt and betrayed on their profiles.

It’s not surprising if your ex starts posting sad quotes and status updates about heartbreak if you were the one who initiated the breakup. Sometimes people will try to grab your attention by doing this.

When they want to get a message across to you, they don’t come right out and say it; instead, they try to be cryptic about it. In addition, it elicits sympathy from others, which is precisely what your ex probably desires.

They make a radical change to their online profile.

If you break up with someone and then look them up online, you may find that everything about their profile has been changed. Together, they will delete all of your old posts and swap out their profile and cover pictures. Even their online behavior has changed.

You probably feel like you don’t even recognize your ex if this is the case. It may seem as though they are having an identity crisis, but in reality, they are just trying to get your attention by doing something out of the ordinary.

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Signs Your Ex Is Pretending To Be Over You On Social Media by Joshua Samuel